Can I Keep You?

Can I Keep You?

I used to be sentimental about a lot of things, but I ran out of room in my heart and for keepsakes. Now, I only keep the most important things. I try to limit my sentimentality but it’s hard to put memories away, even when you no longer need them. We spend a lot of...
When Your Friend Finds A Lover.

When Your Friend Finds A Lover.

Men and women need each other, and they need to be friends. However, rarely do people write about what happens to precious, life-giving male-female friendships when friends find lovers that are not each other. I’m lucky to have a lot of married/engaged/commited...
Remember is Quicker than Forget.

Remember is Quicker than Forget.

I once said to someone that writing requires an ability to recall a moment, a feeling, a person in an instant. To re-enter the past and all we experienced there, then step back into the present. Thus, it is possible to live with much experience and emotion close to...
It’s How We Fight, Not Just Why.

It’s How We Fight, Not Just Why.

There’s nothing more heartbreaking or frustrating than listening to a friend talk about the latest fight they had with their lover or family member, when you hear an emergence of the same old patterns, the same old stories and the same habits. Those habits are...