A Need to be Wanted

A Need to be Wanted

He flung out his hand, asking for mine and grasped my wrist in a clumsy sort of embrace. “You are requirements,” he said. “Don’t go.” I had simply wondered out loud about leaving the party to go home now the celebrations were in full swing. It was a...
When You are in the Graft.

When You are in the Graft.

Not done yet: but instead always onwards, upwards and downwards on the journey of life. This is harder than it sounds. But if there is within you some ache, frustration or desire that will not rest – you are not done yet. Fight for your life, through the pain...
100 Days: Transformation

100 Days: Transformation

I’m coming to the end of the #100days project, which began on August 1, 2016 and will finish on November 8th, 2016. People have been asking, what this project has been about. You’ve seen glimpses. Here’s an explanation and a question of sorts. How...
Welcome to the Lonely.

Welcome to the Lonely.

One morning last year, I woke from a dream and my head was full of thought; hanging like a wave waiting to crest for some time. The kind of billowy thoughts that are undefined; really more of a feeling. It was heavy and I searched to define it until I remembered the...
It’s How We Fight, Not Just Why.

It’s How We Fight, Not Just Why.

There’s nothing more heartbreaking or frustrating than listening to a friend talk about the latest fight they had with their lover or family member, when you hear an emergence of the same old patterns, the same old stories and the same habits. Those habits are...